1. I've just ordered a book with this title, a memoir by Candia McWilliam, and I am so envious. I used to love those little books, where life was under control provided you followed the rules and paid attention. It has led me to try to write a poem with the same title, which ended with the line 'but I can't see you.' I don't know who this applies to - could be children, ex spouse, friends far away or even myself. I am not lonely here - lovely neighbours, family close by (roads willing), friends in touch, but I think I am (as the song says) in a state of 'longing' for someone or something.
'All is calm and cold/bright frost curtains the branches/over everything there is longing/over all is white'
2. You have to ask for what you want. It sounds simple, but it is not easy to do. I started today by asking a neighbour for a lift to the shops. Next time I'll ask if I could have a soak in their hot tub too!
3. Articulating to yourself what you want and need is hard enough. I am going to use this blog to help me find my way.
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